Nominating yourself doesn’t come naturally and its often stigmatised. It takes guts to do it and even more guts to talk about it. What’s wrong with admitting your good at something and deserve recognition for it...
DO YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TO NOMINATE YOURSELF FOR AN AWARD? I DID!
Nominating yourself doesn’t come naturally and its often stigmatised. It takes guts to do it and even more guts to talk about it. What’s wrong with admitting your good at something and deserve recognition for it.
Being open and vulnerable is hard. O yes but it is very rewarding advocating for yourself.
Ok so I am not going to dress this up, I am a serial self nominator and guess what a multi award winner. I may not continue winning but even being shortlisted gets my charity and my work recognised.
Where did I get this reinforced? By attending an Assist event hosted by incredible, amazing and successful award winning women who are part of the Assist network.
You know what if I don’t believe in myself who else will? One may think I am conceited, sad, narcissistic, aggressive and not feminine enough. I actually had feelings of not good enough, popular enough, imposter syndrome, not loved enough and the more I read articles on how humbled others were that someone nominated them confirmed this. Did I let this beat me? NO WAY
Who benefits? Me personally because not only did I believe it myself and the self esteem and confidence that brings , so did the judges. I cant make myself win after all so the evidence shows me it clearly paid off. Professionally is raised my charities profile and the message of recovery far and wide. Winning.
Repeat this Mantra after me
I refuse to wait for people to nominate me
I refuse to wait until my man asks me to marry him
I refuse to wait for a payrise or bonus at work
I refuse to wait for someone to enrol me on a course and hand me the certificate
From the heart
Here’s to now and the future of empowered women
Best of Luck
Annalice Argyle founder of TRAC UK – The Recovery Advocates and Consultants
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Since joining Assist I have been invited to events including Hidden Women of Teesside, where I had the chance to network with local business women and build contacts. I felt very welcomed and part of something supportive of where I'm at today and what I'm trying to achieve. I now have an experienced mentor for the next year to help me focus and build my dreams. Lastly I was invited to the Assist Christmas meal which was amazing as being self-employed and a small grassroots organisation, it can get lonely so I was grateful for the opportunity to connect with other women feeling the same way and trying to achieve great things.
Annalice Argyle – Trac UK (Teesside)
Independent Recovery Advocates and Consultants & Lobster Recovery
I found Assist through a love of books and a desire for personal development but what I discovered was so much more. Whatever you come to Assist for it will benefit all aspects of your life; personal, professional and community. It is positive action for women on Teesside to support and empower each other and most importantly, to thrive. Why would you not want to be a part of this?
Hayley Mclean – Anderson Barrowcliff LLP
ASSIST is just the most wonderful organisation. Filled with decent, powerful, creative, useful, intelligent and interesting people. And, the networking meetings smell so much better than normal ones :)
Jackie Dack of TEAL
Personal Performance Coach
Having struggled for a while to find a womens network in Teesside, i stumbled across of the Assist events by chance. How happy i am that i did. Ann and the team make the networking fun and relevant, informative and comfortable. I've made several really good business connections, but mostly i've met some great women who i know i could turn to for advice, or even just to meet for a coffee. We all face the same issues within business and personally and the Assist meet's allow collaboration, suggestion, support and smiles. Thank you Assist x
Katie Kendall – Hays Recruitment